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A dream can warn
us of potential danger, and decoding our dreams
can often help us to solve problems. Frequently,
things that trouble us crystallize in a dream.
Some dreams even predict the future. Studying
and interpreting dreams isn't new, as they have
fascinated man since the dawn of time.
Dreams have been carved on cave walls, set in
stone, and every Roman Legion had a soothsayer
to try and make sense of 'nocturnal visions'.
In ancient times, priests consulted oracles and
shrines for guidance, to try and make sense of
dreams.
Our ancestors believed that dreams
were messages from the gods, and in days gone
by, interpreters of dreams were visited much as
doctors are today. Times may have changed, but
the fascination of dreams remains. Many now-famous
people have put forward theories of dream interpretation.
Sigmund Freud thought that much
of what we dream is in some way sexual. Another
psychoanalyzer, Carl Jung, recognized that man
has other deep desires to drive him. In his fascinating
book, An Experiment with Time, Professor Dunne
put forward the idea that all time is like a river,
and that it can be navigated backwards or forwards
in the vessel of dreams. Sleep is the road to
dreamland. And these days, thanks to advances
in medical science, we certainly know more about
it than our predecessors did.
On average, we sleep for a third of each day;
by the time we're 75, we have slept for 25 years
- and dreamt for 10 of them. That's a lot of sleeping,
and a lot of dreaming! Recent studies show that
what occurs in dreams takes place in a real-life
time-span, so, for instance, simple things like
shopping or eating take just as long in a dream
as they do in reality.
In more complicated dreams, however,
where you're, say, in far-flung places, you're
simply seeing the 'edited highlights'. Studies
also have shown that it's possible to dream with
your eyes open, which happens when the brain becomes
overloaded with the toxins created by fatigue.
In extreme exhaustion, the person
will succumb to the need for sleep - but the dream
will be cut short by an inbuilt desire to survive,
for example, if they have started dreaming at
the wheel. It's long been accepted that the ideal
position for a good night's sleep is to be on
the right-hand side of the bed. The bed should
be facing north-south, so that the body can make
maximum use of the lines of magnetism running
from the Poles. Try running your hands in cold
water before retiring as well - it can get rid
of surplus static.
If
you find it hard to sleep, try breathing very
deeply in through your nose and out through your
mouth. This is a very helpful technique for becoming
calm. When we fall asleep each night, a complex
series of changes in our consciousness takes place.
Deepest sleep comes upon us almost
immediately. This is followed by a shorter period
of lighter sleep in which our eyeballs dart about
beneath our closed lids. This period of Rapid
Eye Movement - or REM - is when we dream. It happens
about five times in an eight-hour period. We usually
wake up after the last one, and naturally these
are the dreams we remember best.
There is some evidence that women
dream for longer periods than men. Perhaps they
simply enjoy their dreams more! Any kind of drugs
- whether stimulants or sedatives - diminish the
amount of dream time. So if you're ill or taking
medication, you're less likely to dream. Dreams
that you have while ill can be discounted as you're
reacting to the illness rather than to a normal
course of events.
Some people claim they never dream,
but this is simply because they don't remember
their dreams as well as others. Clinical tests
have proved that when so-called non-dreamers are
woken during REM sleep, they give vivid accounts
of the images they have just seen, which are,
like real-life events, in colour. Even our pets
dream. If you watch a sleeping dog or cat, you
can detect their Rapid Eye Movement.
Many
people claim they can't remember the content of
a dream on waking. Because dreams are an expression
of our true selves - including desires we can't
admit even to ourselves, let alone others - dreaming
is the only way we have of expressing them. We
sometimes find it hard to accept the messages
that are being given in a dream, and so we censor
them.
Dreams are heavily loaded with
emotion, and this can distort our memory. To help
remember your dreams, try keeping a dream diary.
On waking, don't get out of bed or even change
position. Keep a notepad and pen by the bed, or
even a tape recorder, and note down or record
everything you can remember. Try and recall, too,
what you were preoccupied with before going to
sleep as this can provide vital clues in interpretation.
Try to recapture the mood of the dream, which
is important. If you still can't remember, but
an event later in the day triggers your memory,
write it down. It could be helpful in working
out the meaning of the dream. Train yourself to
do this regularly, and gradually memories of your
dreams should follow.
Dreams are a proven creative artistic
source: some of our greatest writers and poets,
like Robert Louis Stevenson and William Wordsworth,
regularly recorded their dreams and were inspired
by them. In dreamland, many wonderful things can
happen: we can travel to distant places, meet
loved ones, even take tea with the Queen. Some
dreams, however, can simply be scary, and a particularly
frightening dream is called a nightmare.
These
severe anxiety dreams - where you wake up in a
cold sweat, feeling very afraid - occur because
what is happening in the dream is too overwhelming
to be contained while asleep, so you wake up.
True nightmares occur in the non- dream phase
of sleep, and have little remembered content.
Sex plays a major part in our
dream world. That's because it has an important
role in our everyday lives. It's a powerful driving
force, like hunger and ambition. While we're awake,
sex is ruled by social restrictions and conventions,
but in our dreams, even the most timid of us can
have explicit and excitingly sexy dreams once
our repressed selves are asleep. That's why the
prissiest of spinsters often uses filthy language
when waking from an anesthetic. Sex is a significant
bodily need, and any unusual or enforced period
without it might result in a sexual dream. Frank
sexual dreams can occur frequently in adolescence,
and often result in actual orgasm. In adults,
everyday sexual needs and preoccupations are dealt
with indirectly in dreams.
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